Have you a sound foundation for yourself and your partner before entering into parenting?
Do you enjoy your team ?
Do you know how to prioritise someone else’s best interests (that of the child) ?
Have you considered yourself well enough throughout your life, before relationship ?
Is that continuing ?
Parent-Child Negotiations
Have you understood your own history as a maturing child?
Is the younger person you are now parenting triggering unexpected responses in you?
How to offer Choice and Consequences in a genuinely ethical way?